All Alone!

Running to someone when there is a problem,in need of help,or when you are happy ; human tendency.

Never can we solve a problem on our own,nor can we keep our sadness to ourselves.There is no day without partying or laughing out loud ,TOGETHER.

When do we have time for ourselves if we keep chasing others? Always! Being alone for sometime leads to depression and we look forward in being comforted.

Even when we are with an acquaintance we cannot stand that awkward silence and build up a conversation.We can never stop all the chattering unless and until we are fast asleep.(Even then we make sound. SNORE:-;)

'Forever Alone' (troll) never happens in real time.We compulsively are in need of a break from everything just to share the most unimportant gossip which we would have heard seconds ago.With the fast growing technology this is never a doubt.

But,if we are not able to be alone;we will only know how to be lonely.

Understanding Woman!!

"You never know what is on a woman's mind."
This statement that is often made is completely true.

Being from the same gender I should be denying as that is what we generally do., but I beg to differ because am so proud to be a woman that too, a fickle minded one. 

It is difficult to figure out our likes, dislikes, reactions, our expectations, what is on our mind, our future plans, our next move etc. At times it is hard for ourselves to find out ,which makes us special and interesting. 

An example, we think of something and we stick to our feelings about it, but in the end it turns out that we feel the very opposite.
We have loads of options and we tend to pick each one each time and ultimately ending up picking everything. Reason being, we like to explore and exploit everything around us to the FULLEST.

Also, it's a good thing people do not really understand us. If everything is provided to us on the plate then when will we actually learn?
This one is for the male population of the society, who generally complain about not understanding a female's reply or response. You would not understand her only when you are in deep discussions. At these situations she is transparently SARCASTIC which is an implicit warning to please differ.

All the five fingers in our hand are not of the same size. Likewise, no one in the world is perfect. Anything viewed on a good notion always turns out to be good.

In the end all that matters is, if you are good at heart, even a dirt on your shirt is a perfect design to your sight.

Boundaries!

It is believed that only bombs,guns,knives are some dangerous weapons that are used to cause death.
But a more powerful and dangerous weapon can kill and tear us apart into pieces.
Trust.

You trust a person, fall in love only to end up being their prisoner. Anything be the relationship you share, the minute you start trusting someone you fall in love more than you know, and the only end you can find for the relationship is your death.

The more you start loving someone, you expect more from them.And when your expectations are not fulfilled ,you are hurt more than you deserve. You would not be able to let go off them only because of the love you have for them.You stop living a life for yourself. The heartbreak leads to your loneliness and eventually death.

A proverb in Tamizh -"Alavukku meerinal amirthamum nanju"- has an inner meaning, anything beyond limits leads to bad happenings. It is the right age to realize this fact and act accordingly.

Keep loving, caring , trusting.

Do not forget your boundaries :)

The Inevitable

2012.
A year that was predicted as end of the world, turned out to be a troll. And this showed us that nothing is ever predictable.
Nor is death.

This year has been really rough. Filled with the demise of many near and dear ones. Some things in life cannot be questioned nor answered. And death reinforces that. It surprises me on how the demise of people we hardly knew, can also shake us deeply.

Yes, we always assume everything happens for a reason. But how can we accept the ever increasing rates of

corruption,murder,rapes and kidnapping.?? 

In a positive way, people who have left us behind are in a better place now than this World .

They have given us memories to cherish.

Every new Beginning comes from another beginning's end.

So let us look forward to a better year this time :)

The beginning :)

Everyone has that one friend who is given more priority among others.
You tend to admire that person.You share all your secrets with them.You begin to become possessive over them.You hate anyone who talks bad abt them.You cannot live a life without them around you.
You fight,argue,irritate ,but you would not be able to go to bed without apologising or hugging each other.They support you whatsoever and you do the same,without having any second thoughts.They have your back throughout.

You start to wonder,what is soo special about this person.

Is there supposed to be a particular reason fot this person to be special?
The person himself/herself is a pressious little gift of your life.You treasure them throughout your life.

This is to that one friend who has been with me throughout all the hard times,who has given me a lot of wonderfull memmories to catch up to,and who inspired me in writing this:)